Week 8 - Class Lecture Review - A Worldview from the Heart's Perspective - Matt Rawlins, Ph.D.

Matt Rawlins, Ph.D., is a seasoned author, keynote speaker, and change management expert with over three decades of experience helping individuals and organizations navigate tension and transform it into growth. As the founder of Green Bench Consulting, his work emphasizes listening, asking meaningful questions, and fostering deeper connections within teams and communities. His lectures, grounded in biblical principles, challenge traditional perspectives on leadership, relationships, and personal growth, providing practical tools to engage life’s complexities with humility and purpose.


Topic: Understanding Humanity and Tension Through a Biblical Framework

In a week filled with profound reflections and candid discussions, Matt Rawlins invited us to explore a worldview not from the intellect's detached gaze but from the heart's vulnerable depths. His approach was as much about listening and asking the right questions as it was about rethinking our definitions of peace, shame, and relational unity in the context of faith.

Overview: Exploring the Landscape of the Heart

Matt Rawlins guided us through a layered exploration of tension—both as a human condition and a divine invitation. Across three days, his lectures wove biblical insights, personal anecdotes, and interactive coaching moments into a cohesive narrative. He invited us to examine what we bring into moments of conflict, asserting that tension itself is not the source of brokenness but a mirror exposing what is already within us.

Day 1 laid the groundwork with discussions on vulnerability, the inherent tension in relationships, and the idea of shame as a distortion of God-given emotions. Rawlins presented Genesis 2:25 as a vision of unbroken, unashamed connection, portraying humanity’s pre-fall state as the ultimate relational blueprint.

Day 2 delved into the art of questioning, a skill Rawlins has honed for decades. He reframed God's questions in Genesis 3 as invitations to discovery, urging us to let ourselves be found by God rather than striving to find Him. This day also introduced the concept of reframing—a simple yet transformative shift in perspective that opens new pathways for growth.

By Day 3, the focus shifted to practical application. Rawlins employed a coaching model to map internal conflicts, helping us name and address underlying values and beliefs. His insights on guilt, shame, and authority revealed the often-hidden dynamics that shape our decisions and relationships.

Highlight: The Power of Reframing Questions

One of the most noteworthy takeaways was undoubtedly Rawlins’ emphasis on reframing questions. His assertion that “changing the question changes the focus” resonated deeply. For instance, shifting from "How can I love God?" to "How can I let myself be loved by God?" flips the narrative, placing the focus on divine initiative rather than human striving. This reframing invites a relational dynamic that is both liberating and transformative.

Another highlight was his exploration of the tension between individuality and community. Drawing parallels between the Trinity and human relationships, Rawlins painted a picture of unity that preserves, rather than erases, individuality. This nuanced view of relational tension felt both theologically insightful and deeply practical.

Impact: A New Lens for Navigating Tension

What made the greatest difference was Rawlins’ invitation to view tension not as a problem to solve but as an opportunity for growth. His coaching exercise, where he mapped a student’s internal conflicts on a board, served as a powerful illustration of how unspoken beliefs shape our actions. By externalizing these patterns, Rawlins showed how they could be reexamined and recalibrated toward a Christ-centered perspective.

This week also reshaped my understanding of shame. Rather than dismissing it as wholly negative, Rawlins described it as a distortion of a healthy emotion—a misplaced response to our brokenness. This carefully considered approach offered a redemptive way to engage with shame, not by avoiding it but by allowing it to point us back to God’s grace.

Conclusion: Reflections on Living in the Tension

Rawlins’ sessions were as demanding as they were encouraging, pushing boundaries while building confidence, driving me to confront the ways I navigate authority, relationships, and my own inner conflicts. His perspective on tension as a divine tool for transformation resonated deeply, particularly as someone who often seeks clarity and resolution in complex situations.

What I appreciated most was his ability to weave theological depth with practical application, never losing sight of the human heart at the center of these discussions. This week left me with a renewed sense of purpose: to embrace tension as an invitation to deeper relationships—with God, with others, and with myself.

As Rawlins so poignantly put it, “Love always finds an expression.” This week reminded me that our expressions of love, no matter how imperfect, are part of a greater story—one of reconciliation, unity, and redemption.


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